I generally keep a tight lid on my f-list size, due to time constraints, but I don't want to miss out on updates so ... I hope you don't mind being friended? Just so you don't have to wonder what nutcase is reading: I'm a 30-something married mother of two moppets, have been in the fandom 5 years, am a former FA mod, slash-friendly, and very tired. But not a psychopath. Unless my kids are being particularly trying. ;)